Category Archive: The Fabulously Single Project

Feb
15

WPIX Morning News Loves Single Parents, Bacon And My Boots

Mely on WPIX Morning News

Picture this: It’s 4pm on Valentine’s Day. I just signed off of work for the day to get ready for my trip to NYC for a drag queen filled celebration of love, when I receive an email from my dear friend Sherri over at Single Edition Media with the subject line TV Opp, asking me …

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Feb
09

Find Happiness with Gaiam TV: How This Single Mom Found Peace Despite Her Ex.

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Picture this. It’s 7:35 am on a cold Thursday morning. A ridiculously hot single mom (that’s me, by the way) grabs her coat and coffee and heads outside to meet her 6-year-old son at the bus stop, just as she normally does every morning he is with his Dad. She stands on the corner and …

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Feb
06

Exclusiv Moscato and Mely: Perfect Together

Exclusiv Moscato and Mely

As a single mom I’m forever on a tight budget. That’s why saving money on booze makes my heart sing — and drunkenly sing it did when I concocted a brilliant plan to smuggle a bottle of Exclusiv Moscato onto my hour long train ride so my friend and I could pregame before having to …

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Feb
01

There Will Be Drag Queens…

Drag Queen Bacon

I have never had a happy Valentine’s Day. For the last fifteen years I’ve spent Valentine’s Day one of two ways: Sitting at home, single and depressed, wishing I had someone to share a romantic dinner with OR coupled and disappointed because one of my many asshole boyfriends couldn’t be bothered to plan a romantic …

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Jan
30

Single Mom Milestones

Mely Creepy Yet Fabulous KeyChain

What a long strange trip it’s been from there to here. In the beginning, losing everything I had and everything I knew was devastating. Becoming a single mom seemed like the worst type of punishment imaginable. A punishment for a crime I didn’t even commit since my ex was the one who broke all of …

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Jan
22

That Bitch Who Burned The Bacon

Burned Bacon

My son has recently developed a routine that involves having breakfast with his father on most Sundays, even though our custody arrangement deems Sundays are mine. You see, I’m not a bitter bitch. I know the pangs of being without my son for three days each week; I also know his father feels those same …

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Jan
19

Happy Breakup To You! How To Get Over A Break Up

How To Get Over A Break Up

A lot of people have asked me how to get over a break up. While I’m no therapist I’m definitely an expert on being a dumpee. I haven’t had a ton of breakups, but the ones I have experienced have been soul crushing enough to earn me the right to give you some break up …

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Jan
17

I Complete Me.

Singleness Quote by Judy Ford

The above picture is the front of my business card. The quote is by Judy Ford, a woman whose words played a large part in changing the way I looked at myself as a single woman. There’s not a doubt in my mind that I would not be as fabulous as I am today had …

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Jan
16

The Fresh Diet (Review): Love At First Bite

Last week I introduced you all to the awesome that is The Fresh Diet. After a full seven days of Fresh Diet delivery, I lost 1.5 pounds and am completely smitten with their gourmet diet food. It was love at first bite. From fabulously-single portions of Strawberry Multi-Grain Pancakes to a Tarragon Infused Salmon & …

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Jan
13

33. Single. And Loving It!

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Tomorrow is my 33rd birthday, which means you have about a day to get that pony, stripper or bacon-scented birthday card here. If you asked me ten years ago where I hoped to be at 33, my plans would not have included being a single mom or a single woman. Yet here I am. About …

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